What is internalized Misogyny—In Nigerian terms

Internalized misogyny

 is how you as a lady jump quickly to brag about how "You don't keep female friends" whenever it is rumoured someone got poisoned by her female friend. 

You start warning others about how your "gender dey shame" you Bs. 

You start lecturing others on the disadvantage of being around female friends while knowingly or unknowingly fueling a stereotype AGAINST YOU too. 

But well, continue na. Because to you, you're some better girl🤦🏽‍♀️😹and the rest of us can't be trusted. 

Cow

"That's why I don't keep female friends because they're all evil" 😒or maybe because you're actually just so insecure 🤦🏽‍♀️? You can't stand being among other strong women, because it triggers jealousy and competition? You'd rather be the only girl among male friends so you can at least have all attention on you because "you're a girl" and they have to treat you like one? 🤷🏽‍♀️

Trace it down and you'd find out it's NEVER secure women who say shit like these, it's those people who LEGIT sit down and GOSSIP and backbite other women who enforce this bs stereotype 🤦🏽‍♀️

I mean I get it. You can do this shit to your fellow woman, but why must we all do the same? Why must all women be feared 🤦🏽‍♀️? 

And it used to be sweeting you when these proud misogynist men hail you, because it satisfies and fills up a never-ending hole in you, in your want to be "different," to be unique. "I'm not like other girls who like to paint their nails all day, I like reading always." Well, why don't you just add "Pick me massa! Pick me" too while you're at it 🤷🏽‍♀️because that's who you are. A slave. A slave to a mentality that is enforced by men who hate women. It's sickening really. Your insecurity shows.