Dating as an Elimination Program: How to Stop Settling and Start Selecting
Are you tired of feeling stuck in a relationship that doesn't serve you? Many people struggle to define their boundaries, but viewing dating as a tactical elimination process can change your perspective. Here is how to identify your non-negotiables and start dating with purpose dating is supposed to just show you what you don’t like. while feelings are natural and attraction is divine and heavenly, the process itself really is just an elimination program. you learn Rethinking Dating: Why It’s Actually a Selection Process learn what you don’t like, what you won’t condone, what you might tolerate…. while there’s also the positive part of discovering aspects and attributes you would want to keep. dating primarily is a selection program. Viewing Red Flags as Data, Not Bargaining Chips but the problem now is we lead with emotions. when someone shows us these hurtful traits of theirs that… well hurt us. we stay and bargain. we forgive and cry, we just unnecessarily hurt our selves inst...
